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Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of Science of People, a platform dedicated to teaching the skills of communication, charisma, and leadership. She is the bestselling author of ‘Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication’.
Intro
How Important Is It to Master the Skill of Communication?
Are We Set in Our Ways? Is Charisma Genetic?
Different Types of Awkwardness in People
How to Make Friends – The 3 Core Friendship Values
How Do You Figure Out Your Core Friendship Values?
How Many People Has Vanessa Taught These Skills? And What Do They Want?
First Impressions
Profile Pictures
Add Cues for a Better First Impression
How Sunglasses Block Connection
More Good Cues for First Impressions
How Do I Make a Really Bad First Impression?
What We Need to Signal to Express Warmth
Breaking the Script
Master Communicators and the "Chemical Cocktail"
Online First Impressions
Be the Red Apple
How to Make an Impression on Zoom
The Story Toolbox
How Important Is Background on Zoom?
Where to Look on Zoom Calls
Date Experiments
Drivers and Passengers in Conversation
Micro Wins
Body Language That Indicates Attraction
Why Busyness Is Not a Mark of Success
The Jam Study – Too Many Choices
Prioritizing Self-Care Over Connection
Dating Checklists
Do We Get More Numb the More We Date?
Two Challenges If You're in a Funk or Feeling Lonely
Steve Being a Control Freak
Networking Events
Ads
Using the Word "Because" as a Leader
How Do We Know If Someone Likes Us?
What If You're Not a Funny Person?
Can You Learn to Be Funny?
Touch
Hacks for Being Funny
Channeling Other People
Microexpressions
Reading Fear in People's Faces
Seeing Disgust in People's Faces
How to Tell If Someone Is Angry Without Them Saying It
How to Tell When Someone Is Truly Happy
How to Tell If Someone Is Sad Even If They Don’t Say It
How to Tell If Someone Is Surprised
How to Tell If Someone Has Contempt Toward You
Can and Should We Change Our Personalities?
Steve's Personality Traits
Making Your New Partner Take a Personality Test
Conscientious People
Do Extroverts Have Better Immunity?
Personality Traits of Lifelong Singles
Should We Know Other People's Personality Types When We Meet Them?
Feeling Like the Vibe Is Off
What Are You Doing to Serve Others
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